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Anxiety occurs when our mind thinks that we are in danger of current or future harm, discomfort or loss.
Anxiety can be experienced through thoughts, feelings and bodily sensations. Everyone experiences anxiety to varying degrees, as it is a normal process which our body uses to try to keep us safe, or to help us manage difficult situations.
For about a third of us, this system becomes a problem by reacting too much, or for too long. Although this isn’t dangerous, anxiety feels scary and we can start to avoid doing things in case something bad happens. As a result, anxiety can greatly affect the quality of our life.
Research has shown that PoTS is not the same as anxiety, and the heart rate increase seen in PoTS is not directly caused by anxiety. However, PoTS is sometimes confused with anxiety because:
If anxiety begins to affect your day-to-day life, it makes sense to do something about it. The good news is, while we may not have all the answers yet for treating PoTS, we do have lots of things that have been proven to help with anxiety.
The system in our body that controls anxiety, now known as the fight, flight or freeze system, was developed to keep us safe by making us alert, ready for action and keen run away from threats. However, it has changed little since the Stone Age and due to this, our brain responds to modern day stressors such as an exam, job interview or a difficult medical appointment in the same way it used to respond to a sabre tooth tiger. It is an amazing process, however, sometimes we need to let our more recently evolved forebrain, where our more complex thoughts occur, take over. In the modern-day people can benefit from being able to careful appraise situations and also to choose to stay in stressful situations, such as challenging jobs or meeting new people.
Panic describes occasions when anxiety becomes overwhelming, and we can no longer easily tune into our rational thinking. Panic Disorder occurs when there is a repeating pattern of misinterpreting harmless body changes as dangerous or threatening to us. A vicious cycle happens where we think inaccurate scary thoughts about what our body is doing e.g. “I am going to die”, or “I will faint and be vulnerable’”. These ‘catastrophic’ thoughts increasingly make the physical symptoms stronger, causing a state of panic. Over time most people caught in this cycle start avoiding places and situations, because they do not want to experience panic. This, however, leaves them feeling vulnerable, and actually more likely to experience further episodes. Panic disorder can commonly occur alongside physical illness.
If we feel anxious, we can use our bodies, thoughts, behaviours and emotions to reduce our symptoms as described below:
When we are anxious, our bodies are observing themselves closely to check we are safe; and we can use this to our advantage.
We can get better at reducing the time we spend worrying.
Letting go of things in the future and past, and realising we can handle the present moment are all skills which help us manage anxiety, and are the key skills developed in mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness is about paying close attention to experiences in the present moment, approaching them with a sense of curiosity and accepting whatever emotions and thoughts come up, and can be particularly helpful for those living with chronic illness.
There are lots of ways to do this, but common ways are focusing on our breath, and guided body-scanning meditation. Guided body-scanning improves our ability to notice pain or sensations without being distressed or needing to change them, building the belief that we can cope. Mindfulness meditation has been shown to reduce heart rate and regulate blood pressure. There is quite a bit of evidence indicating that it is worth giving it a go!
You can also practice engaging in everyday tasks in a more mindful way, by focusing on each of your senses during activities such as eating and drinking. Trying to remain in the present moment and approaching it was a curious mind can help draw attention away from anxious thoughts about the future or the past.
Lots of useful resources for all these approaches can be found online. If you struggle to get started you can seek the support of a professional to help you as changing these habits and forming new ones can be hard work on your own.
Obviously, what we do and where we go can affect our anxiety, and conversely anxiety can affect what we do and where we go. At times anxiety can increase isolation as you might try and avoid situations that may bring on anxiety.
In fact, part of the definition of clinical anxiety is avoiding things. Sometimes this is sensible, but often it makes things worse. If every time we get anxious we leave or avoid a situation, we can start to crave the lovely relief chemicals that come from escaping.
Soon we can find life is more and more limited by this ‘safety-seeking’, which can begin to affect our self-confidence, self-belief, our enjoyment of life and our mood. If we stay in the situation and tolerate discomfort we can instead feel pride in ourselves and realise even extreme anxiety always passes.
Engaging in activities that we enjoy and that are meaningful to us can provide a helpful distraction from anxiety. Distraction is different from avoidance and can be very helpful. The trick is to choose to focus on something more helpful or positive (rather than desperately trying to stop or avoid symptoms, which, because of the urgency, only adds fuel to the fire of the anxiety symptoms). Try gently re-focusing on music, reading or a conversation.
It can be helpful to hold in mind the acronym ACE, which stands for achievement, connection and enjoyment. Trying to plan in activities that fit into each of these categories can help ensure you have a balance of different fulfilling engagements which benefit your emotional wellbeing.
Other difficult emotions like low mood, anger, guilt or frustration can prime us to be more likely to feel anxious in any given situation, so we need to get better at managing these too. Once we are anxious it can spread, so things we would normally manage well can cause us to become anxious. One of the most unhelpful things we can do is get angry or frustrated with ourselves for being anxious. We don’t deserve this unkindness, and it only makes it worse by adding more anxiety to the mix. Trying to ‘fight our way though’ anxiety also doesn’t work for the same reason. We need to become a good friend to ourselves and be patient and reassuring. Sometimes it can help to think about how you would respond to a friend in the same situation as you, as we often find it easier to tap into compassion this way.
With the right tools, next time you feel the physical effects of anxiety you can use strategies to help you notice symptoms or sensations, to calm and redirect your focus. This way you do not react excessively (which causes panic) and resist safety-seeking behaviours. Over time, discomfort in the same situations diminishes, and the world begins to expand again, rather than shrink.
Anxiety is common and we need to talk about it more. Anxiety thrives when we are ashamed of it. Especially if our physical health problems have previously been misdiagnosed as mental health problems, it can make us reluctant to draw attention to mental health struggles we might have as well. Remember it is very common to develop mental health issues with all long-term illnesses.
To avoid affecting your recovery by leaving anxiety untreated, ask for a referral, or self-refer online, for a talking therapy. These include:
Once they learn these approaches, many people find them useful for improving all aspects of their lives, and they wish they had developed these skills earlier and that they were taught in school.
Talking therapies do not always involve sitting face to face with another person. If mobility is a problem, it can be possible for sessions to take place over the telephone or online. It can be hard work making all the changes you need to manage anxiety, but it can be well worth the effort!